Intentionally attempting to adopt Jesus Christs' priorities and purposes as our own. Learning to live simply so others may simply live.
Sunday, October 9, 2011
A Simple Life - Fall 2011
Saturday, June 4, 2011
Settled In Pennsylvania
| Terry and Connie getting the Veg. garden up and going. Looks like it is going to be a "yummy" summer! |
Sunday, March 6, 2011
One Year Later & Still Smiling!!!
We have now been living the full time RVer lifestyle for almost a full year and are so happy we made this decision. The picture at the top shows us sitting by a branch of the river (with our Niece's puppy dog - Abby) at the campground we have worked at this past winter
(http://www.bytheriver.com/).
It is always interesting to see whom God crosses our path with and how He orchestrates the relationships to benefit and challenge each one of us spiritually. The lower picture is of a neat couple we are currently "workamping" with - Bill
Sunday, March 21, 2010
We depart this Thursday for a two week visit to Puerto Viejo, Limon, Costa Rica.
The primary purpose of our visit is to check out a grass roots ministry called "The Bridge". This is a grass-roots group of retirees from the U.S., Canada and Europe who are ministering in practical ways to an indigenous indian tribe called the Bri-Bri's. Nutritional assistance, Education Encouragement & Support; and, Micro Loans to encourage continued self sufficiency are the major three areas of helping at this time. More is in the works - which is where we may fit in. Check out their existing efforts at www.elpuente-thebridge.org
There will also be plenty of time for R&R on the beautiful carribean sand beaches and/or in the neighboring rain forest where howler monkeys, sloths, dart frogs and many other interesting creatures still thrive in the wild.
We will post an update upon our return.
Thanks for your emotional and spiritual support.
Henry & Terry
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
New Year - New Decade - Ready or Not
Change is in the air with more than just the weather, as we are nearing the end of our first year as Teaching Parents. This has been a true culture change, certainly exceeding our comfort zones and energy capabilities. "Growing" times are never without some pain, but the end product is hopefully worth the efforts. Working with six ADD/ADHD boys who also have many emotional scars has been more than difficult at times, but infiltrated by rays of hope from time to time.
We are currently assessing our position/situation, as other options for ministry have presented themselves to us. More on a later post, please keep us in your prayers and feel free to give us your insights and/or personal advice.
We pray your Christmas-Holiday season was filled with the Peace and Love of Christ as your created many new memories with loved ones to savor over the future years.
Blessings in 2010,
Henry & Terry
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Culture Shock Re-Defined!
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Onward on The Journey
Education is the key focus at BGC. The children attend area public schools and can earn priviliges to participate in various extra curricular activities such as 4-H, athletics, band, etc....... Privileges are based on scholastic and attitude grade averages. If the child remains with BGC and graduates from High School, they are gifted a college education at a Texas university of their choice.
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Home Is Where The Heart Is
How do you define "home"? When asked - "Where is home?" - what is your response? Is it contained within a material structure or a geographic area? Does it refer to other humans who share the same DNA and bloodline? That seems to be the information most people are looking for when asking that question.
I remember when that information did adequately describe "home" for us. We were wrapped up in our own God honoring little world, safe and content to self describe where, what and who "home" was. Boundaries were pretty easily defined as to what we were and were not responsible for.
However, after several years of "life challenges" and spiritual maturation our definitions of many things have changed, including what, where and who home is. The previous definition still remains as part of our view of home - but it has expanded greatly to include so much more. The most critical part of our definition of home is centered around the experienced presence of the Spirit of Christ.
Wherever we sense the Spirit of Christ can, and has, become home for us. Some times that can be sensed in a group setting - such as some Believers who do not understand our language (or us theirs) but, none the less, make us feel at home in their time of worship through warm smiles, genuine hugs and authentic spirits of Christ-likeness.
We have also experienced "home" when God has crossed our paths with individuals who have decided to live their life solely for the purpose of sharing the love of Christ in ways that are appreciated and welcomed by the less fortunate ..... such as a former Jazz Musician who now serves as an "unofficial" administrator for a dozen schools in the Honduras mountains - allowing God to use her as a conduit for others to give and provide basic educational needs such as paper, pencils, books, chalkboards, chalk, etc.......including a new toilet and paint for the school building. Also, a retired nurse who was burned out on the public heath care industry and moved to a Caribbean island to retire - only to start a community health clinic in her kitchen that has now developed into a large clinic/hospital dealing with 60+ patients every day. Then there is the couple who were business professionals turned full time pastors when they decided the religious rat race was no better than the corporate one - moved to an island for early retirement and are now the developers/directors of an endeavor that supplies the only drinking water available to an entire community of indigenous people....and more dreams on the horizon!
These situations and people all became "home" for us in the time God allowed us to share life with them. We continue to remain open for whatever, wherever and whoever Christ allows us to share life with. We are praying our "home-front" will continue to expand - for that is where we have experienced true fulfillment and purpose - sharing life with Christ-minded people on a daily basis, together serving those who are less fortunate.
We pray His Peace and Love will continue to infect all you come into contact with in 2009.
Happy New Year from our "home" to yours!
- Henry & Terry McCray
(pic of our grandchildren Kyle & Kendall)
Friday, December 5, 2008
Heading Back to T-town.
As we look back over this past three months it is amazing to see how Holy Spirit has used every step along the way to knock off some of our rough spots and mold us more to His image.
Our first two months were spent in Helene, Roatan, Honduras - which God primarily used to slow us down from the "rat-race" pace we have lived in the U.S. for the past 55+ years. We learned from some Godly islanders what total trust in Christ looks like. We wish we could say we achieved that - but at least we are in process. It is amazing how many things we manipulate in our own lives and ask God to bless it.
Also on Helene, we learned from the islanders how much less we can live with. Less "things", "stuff", "transportation" other than our feet. (for Henry - less food and sweets!!) We also began to enjoy less time apart, less stress, less godless distractions, less religious expectations. Less focus on "doing" and major focus on "being".
For whatever reason, we were not lead to stay or return to Helene. Instead, we sensed God's leading to attend a Spanish language Emersion School on the mainland of Helene. After three hard weeks of homework and memorization we finally graduated Spanish Kindergarten!!! :-)
More importantly we began to sense the hearts of the hispanics on the mainland. Living in such poverty they were more content, fulfilled and thankful than we have been most of our lives in the States.
After "graduation" we returned to Roatan to help in a Mission Health Clinic and a Mission group who is providing water (physically and spiritually) to the newest residents of the island. Our hearts warmed within us as we spent time with these precious people. Most have such a firm resolution to Christ, family and neighbors. We were able to experience "community" at it's purest form.
Once again, for whatever reason, doors are not open at this time to return to Roatan. So ..... we remain committed to go through any open door Christ provides. At this time that means returning to Tulsa to look for doorways of minsitry. We think that may lead to ministry with Hispanics, but will not attempt to place limitations on Holy Spirit's plan of action.
So.....we head back to the states with trepidation, fear and trembling. We do not want to squander or lose the growth we have experienced over the past three months. Translated: we do not wish to re-enter the "career race", the "horde it for security" mindset, the "less time shared" structure of most U.S. married couples, the "compartmentalized mindset" that separates all areas of our daily lives. I'm sure most of you don't deal with those problems, but it took two full months on a desolate island for Christ to cleanse us and redirect our passions and priorities.
We are trusting Holy Spirit to place us in the midst of others who are "like-hearted" and will be willing to allow us to grow with them in the journey of Christ-like living.
Therefore, our journey continues . . . want to come along?
Blessings and Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ,
Henry & Terry
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Back In Roatan
Monday, November 10, 2008
Life In The Mountanins
Did I mention Copan is in the mountains? Actually, it is in a valley surrounded by mountains. But, it seems everywhere we go is up hill. How does that work out??? Our host home is only one block from the school - put another way - it is 127 stairs from the school. (picture)
Friday, October 31, 2008
Watch Out Copan - Here We Come
This comes at a perfect time for us to pull away and spend quality time with God and each other on the subject of 2009. How should we invest the next year of our lives? Spiritual, emotional, financial and physical concerna will all need to be worked through at the deepest level. Of course, at the base of it all we know that “we can do all things through Christ” – it’s not about our strength – it is about His!!!
There are two enormous needs here on Roatan that we are specifically praying about:
These people in La Colonia are extremely friendly, warm and open to new relationships and life views. They are mostly Spanish speaking only – and their smiles will melt your heart. They are looking for real answers to the heavy issues of life and are open to listening and learning. They left their old ways of living (culture) behind and know they must adjust to become a permanent fixture in a strange land. This promises to make them extremely open to a personal relationship with Jesus Christ - via - new personal relationships with Christians who themselves demonstrate a intimate personal relationship with our loving God. Our goal at language school is to learn enough conversational skills to clearly communicate Christ’s love and acceptance.
We are told we will have internet access at least once per week while in Copan. We will do our best to keep you informed as we continue our journey.
We love you and look forward to seeing most of you when we return to the states in December and January.
In His Love and Service,
Henry & Terry McCray
Saturday, October 25, 2008
Farewell To Helene
This is a very symbolic picture for us - Terry is standing on the beach watching the cruise ship (Helene ministry) pull away without us. We were so sure God wanted us on that boat!!! Notice just past Terry on the beach is a local Honduran. (new ministry focus) Ooops..... guess once again, we put our thinking ahead of His. Will we ever learn to "Be Still and KNOW that I am God"?
So, our journey continues. When God closes a door, He has promised to provide an alternative.
Through a chain of Godly people on Roatan, He made us aware of a four star resort where the owner only charges "mission minded people" one third of the regular fees. So, we are basically staying in beautiful, up-scaled acommodations for $50 per night. (That also includes a free breakfast!) This picture is taken on the beach we see right out of our window. Again, if you ever visit Roatan - be sure and check out the "Blue Bahai" for your lodging needs. (non-paid advertisement!)
Hold on . . . . here we go again! One thing led to another (God Working) and we are enrolled in an intensive, emersion Spanish School for the entire month of November.
The Guacamaya Spanish School is a privately-owned school with experienced and enthusiastic (hopefully very patient) teachers dedicated to providing high quality Spanish classes that promise to speed our language acquisition and comprehension. (We will be their ultimate challenge!) The school is located in the western highlands of Honduras, near the Guatemala border, in the heart of the peaceful, the scenic town of Copán Ruinas, just two blocks from the central park, and less than a mile from the world-renowned Maya archeological ruins.
During our entire stay we will be living with a Honduran family - which offers the opportunity to speak Spanish outside of class and better understand the Honduran culture.
So, here we go moving from sea level to an 6,000 ft. high mountain range. As I have stated in previous posts - God has a grand sense of humor and loves creating surprises!
We do sense a strong calling for the Hispanic peoples - whether they be in Honduras or in East Tulsa. We continue to trust God in opening and closing all of the available venues of ministry.
Please be praying for our instructors. We will each have our own on their one-on-one teaching program. Pray we can be a positive influence for Christ in their lives; and that God will give them Holy Patience as we try to penetrate new language skills through these aged thick skulls of ours!
Once again, thanks so much for your support - many of you sent encouraging responses to our last two posts - and we sensed Christ's love and affirmation through you.
On our ever twisting journey,
Henry and Terry
Saturday, October 18, 2008
Halfway Done - Six weeks completed!
We were able to enjoy the rest of the day off, which allowed for some clothing repair - I am so thankful I brought my personal nurse and tailor to the island of Helene with me!
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Those Yankees Are Gone!!!
which is now "doable" thanks to the great team from Rhode Island.
Here is Dr. Ruth from the Rhode Island Team (to the left of Terry) and Nurse Deirdre.
Monday, October 6, 2008
One Third Completed
This picture is an appropriate illustration of that fact. Instead of Volcanic formations, the island of Helene is built on raised coral from the sea.
We experienced our first earthquake this past week at 3:15am. It wasn't bad, but did lead to a prayer of thanksgiving before returning to sleep. We are geographically situated over a large "fault line" in the earth's crust. Roatan and Helene are literally a result of tumultous events when earthquakes shove coral up out of the sea. I am told that is still happening at time goes on. But, as you can see in the picture above, life still goes on. Our creator is so wise and omnipresent throughout His creation! Look at how the plant life and trees actually embed themselves into the solid rock-like coral - and life takes off. As the leaves fall and the sand, dirt and dust collect - a thin layer of top soil begins to develop. Then small critters take up habitat. The process continues until solid enough for people to build a "stilt house" on, and then you have the beginnings of a new community on Helene. This lead me to ask myself - "How is God using the spiritual earthquakes in my life to complete His good work in my life?"
This past week we experienced a major community celebration as the Honduras government finally fulfilled a long time promise of a cement bridge on the island of Helene. The only negative was where they located the bridge - as you can see in this picture, the bridge dead ends into the "bush" instead of being placed in a more central location on the island. (Government thinking is Government thinking wherever you go!) Oh well, Helenians look for any reason to celebrate, and a huge community wide pig roast with music, dancing, dominoes and much laughter was enjoyed by all.
This week we have a Short Term Mission Team with us from Newport, Rhode Island. It is good to have some extra bodies and spirits with us at this time. Their major project will be to build a new housing building for our water de-salination plant. They will also be helping in the school, with medical home visits, and building new relationships with the islanders. We are enjoying the opportunity to learn each of their journeys with Christ and share in their passion for hands on ministry in His name.
Today marks the beginning of our second month on Helene. We have two more months on this journey, but only one month before we will need to give the team an answer about 2009. We desperately covet your prayer support for wisdom and Godly thinking during this time. Eventually we will ask for your help in arriving at this decision -via- some sort of survey. Therefore we will be praying that God will confirm through you what we are personally sensing from Him.
We pray you are experiencing God's workings and intervention in your life on a daily basis.
In His Love,
Henry & Terry

